Wedding Update

So. Since I last posted Ryan and I have booked a date, venue for both the reception and ceremony, as well as a photographer.

We will be married on Thursday, September 17, 2015 at 7:00 in the evening. Our wedding will be a stand up reception with an open bar and dessert table. We were originally hoping for a very small wedding of maybe 25 guests, but of course it’s now turned into around 85 people (and that’s still leaving out a ton of family who apparently expect to be invited even though we never see or hear from them). Our budget is small, since we’re paying for the majority of it ourselves, but I think we’ll still be able to accomplish the romantic, intimate, low key evening wedding I’m imagining.

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That’s our venue in the two pictures in the top left corner. We’ll get married in front of the fireplace there, since it will be evening, but the outside will be all lit up so it’ll be lovely to look outside at the park’s pond outside. I’m loving lots of gold and candles to get that intimate/romantic feel. I think incorporating sparklers somewhere in our wedding would be a unique touch and especially fitting for an evening wedding.

For a dress I’m looking for something in white, but informal. I’ve gravitated towards a lot of the shorter dresses like the ones in the bottom left and top right, but I’m not opposed to a longer dress that is more flow-y (does that word make sense?). I am loving those Kate Spade MRS earrings and think they will be worth the splurge. And that hair style in the middle on the right? Classic, low key, but romantic and beautiful. Love it so much!

A burgundy/plum will be our accent colour, and I think it’ll look great in our flowers. I’m hoping to decorate without flowers to save costs, but I’ll still have mine and my maid of honour’s bouquets, as well as boutonnieres for Ryan and his best man.

For favors I was thinking smore kits will be the way to go to fit with the dessert theme. Originally we were going to do Ryan’s homemade meat rub (it’s so darn good and really great on chicken or beef), but I didn’t think it worked.

So far wedding planning has been kind of a drag. I feel an immense pressure to get it right after dreaming about my wedding since I was a little girl, and I think I’m just afraid I won’t be happy with my final result. I realize that this is not why I am getting married, so I think I just have to work at being positive and not letting other people’s opinions on our untraditional wedding get into my head.

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We are getting our engagement photos done next Friday and I’m hoping the pretty leaves stay on the trees until then. Last week we had unseasonably warm temperatures out of the blue (think 30+ degrees, hello July!) but this week we’re back into cold sweater weather and lots of overcast. I just have to cross my fingers that we’ll get a couple nice photos of Ryan, Wallace and I out of it!

Ryan and I also celebrated our last anniversary as a dating couple on the 26th by spending the day together (after I finished a paper that was due that night), going to the gym and then out for a lovely dinner at a new restaurant. We never go out anymore and thought about not going this year just because we’re so strapped for cash at the moment (Weddings? Expensive. Basement repairs? Expensive. Upcoming birthdays and Christmas? Expensive.) but we decided to go anyways as a treat and I’m glad we did.

Anyways, that’s enough about our wedding. We’ve done a couple of updates to the house in the past month as well, so I’ll have to come back and write about that another day. Tomorrow is Wallace’s birthday, so that’s kind of a big deal around our house.

Anybody else planning a wedding? Did anybody else have an untraditional wedding and feel like they disappointed everyone? Am I being ridiculous and overdramatic?

It’s Beginning To Feel A Lot Like….

CHRISTMAS!

As in, I just bought my first Christmas gift today and am totally pumped about it! Anybody who knows me is not the least bit surprised.

To be fair though, I have a thing for children’s books and that is what I bought – for baby Jackson, of course. (Not to be confused with brother Jackson). I’m pretty sure I’ve bought him books for every occasion since he was born, just because I think it’s never a bad idea for any child to start a collection. I know I always was (and still am) a big fan of reading as a kid – I used to DEVOUR books and I would read EVERY. single. sign. every time we drove in the car (my parents must have loved that).

Actually, last year I finished my English major at university with a course all about children’s literature. It was super interesting and probably my favourite class I’ve taken my whole university career! I got myself a shiny and bright A on that one :)

Hmm, what else…

I’m taking an extra vacation day tomorrow so my long weekend is now four days! My weekend will consist of a smorgasbord of random things. Tomorrow Ryan and I will be visiting three possible wedding venues. Then we will have a romantic date day/night of going to Ikea and Home Depot. And then we’ll make dinner and play games. Because we are long overdue for a night of just the two of us.

Saturday I will be painting our bathroom and going to our friend’s birthday party later that night. Sunday Ryan will be gone all day so I should be able to finish the bathroom. I hope to do some putty-and-sanding tonight so that I can wash and prime Saturday. If I start early enough I should be able to get one coat of paint on the walls as well. Sunday will be the same. I have to do the ceiling one colour, the walls one colour, and the chair rail another colour. I may also do the vanity, not sure. This is what it currently looks like:

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So yeah, pretty blah. And teeny. But it gets pretty good natural light from that frosted glass window so I’m leaning towards a darker colour. I actually am really loving this bathroom and am using it as inspiration/I’m probably just going to copy them.

I’m also looking forward to getting a new shower curtain that will match. Man, how much do I haaaaaaate lavender?

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I’ve also been waiting to purchase one these bad boys for the bathroom, so I’m excited to update the one piece of art in here as well! Fun Fact: Outkast is one of Ryan’s favourite bands, and the 90’s are a regular topic of great fun gone by around our house, so it seems very appropriate ;)

So, yeah, painting party all weekend. Monday is a holiday so we will be going golfing (pause for reaction) with another couple and then to my mom’s house for family dinner. Tuesday is back to work and September means back to school! My very last first day of school :) I am going to ROCK my final semester!! Woo to the Hoo!

Anyways, this post is ridiculously random. I’m going to sign off and enjoy my four day weekend ahead! Happy last weekend of summer, friends!

Summer Vacation

Oh hey there! I literally have not posted in a month – and I have no idea where the last month went!

Last time I posted about our amazing family weekend at our friend’s cabin in LOTW. After that Ryan and I were on vacation for two whole weeks, and it was such a great break from the office. We planned well and got the best two weeks of the summer, weather-wise, and I’m soooo thankful. Especially because it’s rainy and poopy and kind of cold now!

So, let’s review a little, shall we?

On the last Friday of July we had a surprise birthday party for my mom who turned 50! My cousin and I planned it at a local pool bar/lounge and we invited a bunch of friends and family and she was TOTALLY surprised – she actually tried to walk away when she turned the corner and saw all of us! I don’t have any pictures of the surprise part, but here is mom and her cake (with all 50 candles, of course!)

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And I am loving this photo of my brother, Grant, my life-long BFF, Liz, and my mama:

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The next day we celebrated Ryan’s dad’s 60th birthday with a family dinner at Ryan’s parents house. I absolutely LOVE this photo of Harry, Cheryl & baby Jackson:

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So adorable!!

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To end that first weekend of vacation a couple girlfriends and I went to see the Beyoncé and Jay Z On The Run show at the stadium. I have no pictures of us, but I did wear my special engagement shirt for the occasion, obviously!

As was expected, the show was amazing and I loved every second of it. We’re already looking forward to the HBO special so we can relive the whole thing together again!!

The next day I had to drag tired butt out of bed early because Ryan, Wallace and I were off on our annual camping trip! We go to a campsite that is very close to where I grew up and being there every year makes me soooo happy!

Wallace was thrilled with the sweet car ride bed we set up for him in the back seat with all the open windows and pillows!

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Like I mentioned before, we had fantastic weather and camping was no exception. It was sunny and hot and when it did rain it was at night so we all three snuggled in our tent that we had facing the water and watched the lightening storm over the lake. It was very lovely :)

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We had a spot with our own access to the water right on site so Ryan and I were able to go swimming without worrying about Wallace, since he wasn’t allowed at the public beach. The water was a little chilly, but because of the late thaw this year (due to our unbearable winter) it’s been expected. Ryan calls this “The Summer of Just Get In” :)

We didn’t do much while we out there, just a lot of swimming, reading, relaxing, eating and a bit of canoeing around the lake. It’s really just a great place!

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I don’t think Wallace loves camping as much as I do (nor does Ryan, to be honest), because he doesn’t get his usual couch naps all day long. But that means he sleeps reeeeally well in the tent :)

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Oh man, looking at these pictures makes me want to go back so badly!!

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We were only out there for a few days. When we got back into the city we started work on the house. Ryan and I rented a big residential garbage bin so we could do some overdue tear downs of our backyard and basement, along with getting rid of a bunch of junk the previous owners left for us (how kind).

You may remember that our backyard used to have this weird partition around the dining area that completely cut off our yard and made it difficult for when we had a bunch of people over.

Before:

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This change makes our yard so much larger and safe. All that wood was really rotten and you’re not actually supposed to cover up your air conditioner like that. So while our backyard is far from beautiful, it’s a bit more functional now. Next step out here is to add some more stone on the right of the table (when facing the pool) so we can extend the patio over what is now an old sandbox. We’ll be able to move our fire pit over there and just have more of a useable living space in the summers :)

We also did a bunch of work in our basement, but I didn’t take any pictures of it because it’s really just a big blank slate now. You may remember that we had flooding in the winter due to our frozen pipes, so we had to tear up all the carpet down there. Because we weren’t feeling the 70s style panelling and the shotty walls that were half-hazardly put up, we tore it all down as well. So now it’s a big open box with just our insulation/vapour barrier exposed. We also pared down more of our junk and took the time to put together a proper pantry. The only thing that is still together downstairs is our bathroom/laundry room, as it is generally functional still.

 But don’t worry, despite all of this manual labour, we still found lots of time to relax. We would wake up early and work in the mornings and then once it got too hot we would laze around in the pool in the afternoons.

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Lisa, Jason & I

It’s a tough life, but somebody’s got to do it! (thanks for the hand photo bomb, Ryan!)

Let’s see, what else did we get up to? We went to the zoo one day to check out the new polar bear exhibit with Ryan’s family.

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Me, Ryan, Jackson (in stroller), Brian, Cheryl & Alicia

I hadn’t been to the zoo since I was very little and a lot had changed. I think I realize now as an adult that I don’t care for the zoo, and I don’t really ever want to go again. I know that the animals are rescued and are not mistreated or anything, but they all make me sad. Jackson seemed to like it though, which was very cute. He’s getting so big!!

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The very last weekend of our vacation was spent at our baseball playoffs, which are always a good time. Ryan and I play on a co-ed beer league team called Double Ryes and RBI’s and the majority of us have been playing together for the past 5-6 years. Playoff weekend is mostly spent doing a lot of drinking and maybe a little baseball. We didn’t play awesome this year, but by the time Sunday came around I don’t think any of us were in the mood for more beer, so we were pretty happy to get knocked out early:

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And then it was back to work on the 11th!

Not much has been happening around here since then. I’ve been working late trying to catch myself up and I haven’t been to hot yoga in about a month (for shame). We were out at another friend’s cabin last weekend which was awesome and it looks like we’re in for a very rainy weekend this week, which will be nice. I can catch up on some of my house chores.

Tonight my friend and I are going to see The Little Mermaid musical and I am very excited as it was my favourite Disney movie growing up. On Wednesday I saw Wicked with my mom, so I’m just in a show tune mood this week! After this show I’m going to be in full on wedding saving mode, which shouldn’t be hard since I start my (very last) semester on the 3rd!

Next week we’re also going to be meeting with someone at the wedding venue I think I want and I’m looking forward to setting a date! Finally!

That’s all for now. This post took way too long to write. Congratulations for making it to the end. You get a gold star!